Sunday, 29 December 2013

Just do it...

The other side of the moon. The one which always stays hidden and away from our sight forever. The unseen and unobservered always matter. We have that tendency to judge. May be logical activities made our brains go haywire. The wirings have ended up a fuzy mess, making us behave in a deductive manner. We weigh, compare, we infer, till this point, its all fair and good. The thing that follows next is the real danger. We weigh, we compare, inferr and we conclude. This is where all humanity has ended up being a big loser. We conclude and hemce become judgemental. Judgemental remindse of the movie "English Vinglish". Such a plain one but the word lingers. Why don't we judge people. Thank God if it had stopped at that. We don't. We start creating mental images of people around us. We constantly project it to our poor brain. And this is how trouble brews. The mental image, we then react and interact with the person in question in the same way as of the mental image. The figment if imagination painted on the canvas of judgement. Why do we end up being so. The world will never stop being critical of our actions. It won't ever sympathise. And in fact it shouldn't. We alone are responsible for our actions and deed. Let's then ditch looking through the glass of pre images. It has been already tarnished by the creation of self imposed images. It would forever hinder us from seeing the world as it is. so as nike says it. just do it...

Friday, 13 December 2013

Being HAPPY Human----------Talk about it

           The Being Human tees worn day in and day out remind me of this very post title. Just being human is all it takes to be happy. Many a times the way or the path to bring up that smile is complicated and over rated. True it is that the journey is many a times more important the ultimate destination that awaits us. No one has ever come back to tell us the route they took. Some have prescribed the way they took, while some forced us into taking a predefined route towards being happy. Personally when does one feel 'happy'. Just being in the moment itself is being happy for me. In fact there sometimes exists no reason for being happy. This maniac laughter that boils within is pristine and needs a way out. At times its simply our own thoughts that hinder the laughter on its way. Just our thoughts. Aren't they important? The smallest of events unfolding out there behold a mystery, a joy  hidden right behind. All you need is the little inspiration to feel it. The bubbles of happiness burst at the slightest prick of self pity. The image that we confront the society the with. The constant pressure to perform. The unseen vices gripping our character. To be acknowledged, is many a times the sole motto. Sadly its this that is cause of those so called ego clashes. In fact no human is without ego. Its the sole gift u get free the day u are born. In fact ego in its demure form is beneficial but sadly it always ends up springing at the the wrong time. 
          Simply using that wagging tongue goes in a long way. Talking about it. Let those emotions flow. Let those words flow. Speak up, It goes in a long way in mending fences. There is no lesser pride in taking a couple of steps backward. Just let em be. Let that prestige be set aside. It helps a lot. Give it a shot. Just speak it out lout what you want to. Just talking with the person in question helps a lot. It relieves you of your emotional luggage. Smile, grin and speak it out

Sunday, 8 December 2013

Thoughts..

          When there is a time when you either don't have a keyboard or a net connection, its frustrating. To miss my blog. The thing that i missed. Keying in and writing those thoughts. Time has come to gather it all up these vacations. Thoughts on being back from first 5 months in a hostel. Something different. A totally vivid life back there. A different phase of life. Getting disconnected from the routine back there. A time of reconnection. The life in a hostel is something I could have never imagined. The first thing which strikes one's mind is sharing. Sharing a room with three other people. But it helps a lot when you are already familiar with them. A lot infact rather than complete strangers being around. The pre assumed missing home and other expected stuff never quite happens. Especially not in a melodramatic way. Though one can never neglect the feeling of being away from accustomed surroundings. An unfamiliar bed to tuck in. A completely different roof overhead. One might even accord this to the so called unattached attitude of the new generation. The 'No-one-gives-a-damn' view, which has been criticized a lot. This could even be attributed to the large number of communication media available to us. Your near and dear ones are just a couple of clicks away. 
       And yet this experience began. The first thing you realise is the freedom. Many might interpret this word wrongly. But its the way one sees at it in the end. It is being free from the rigid boundaries one is expected to follow. It is the freedom not only to think but be responsible for our thoughts and consequent actions. A lot more days and experiences to follow on this little journey called hostel life..